Dogs can be wonderful family companions, teaching children the importance of being responsible, developing empathy and caring for others. With just under half of Australians owning a dog, it’s important to recognise that dogs and children can sometimes communicate differently. That’s why we compiled this guide to help you teach your child about creating a safe and positive relationship with their doggy friend!
Dogs and their body language
Dogs communicate their feelings through body language and children can be taught to recognise these signals so they can respond appropriately.
Happy dogs have a relaxed body posture with wagging tail, and ears resting naturally on their head.
Worried or anxious dogs might be turning their head away, tucking their tails or trying to appear as small as possible.
Unhappy dogs usually bare their teeth. They may be growling or snarling with hair raised on their body.
Learn more about dog body language here.
To ensure children and dogs have positive experiences with each other, encourage your child to give treats when a dog is well-behaved or play gently. This will improve the bond between your child and the family pet.
Access useful resources in the Prevent-a-Bite program
A simple way for children to remember when it’s safe to pet a dog is to remember the Wag your Tail song. This catchy tune was created by children’s entertainers Pevan & Sarah for RSPCA Queensland’s brand new Prevent-a-Bite Program:
T – touch them gently, on their side is the best
A – avoid touching if they’re eating or at rest
I – imagine how they’re feeling
L – love them with respect and show them that you care
Things to consider as a parent
Dog safety starts at home, and as parents, it is important to ensure that your child understands that dogs too, sometimes need a break from playing or other bustle. Always remember these key things:
Supervision: Never leave a child unsupervised with a dog, even if it’s your family pet
Respect: Teach your child to respect a dog’s space, especially your dog’s toys, bed or food
Appropriate play: Encourage gentle games like hide-and-seek. Never ever tug a dog on their tail or ears or be in any way rough with them.
Safe spaces: Always make sure your dog has a safe space to retreat to if they start feeling overwhelmed. Your child should be taught to leave the dog alone if they go into their safe space.
Understand boundaries: Teach your child to always ask for permission before petting a strange dog, and to avoid disturbing a dog when it’s sleeping, eating or injured
As a parent, model these behaviours for your child, so that they understand the importance of interacting safely with dogs.
Dog safety is a lifelong skill
By teaching children to respect and understand dogs and their behaviours, they can both grow up in a safe and happy environment. If you’re looking for additional resources or activity packs to educate your children about this important topic, the RSPCA Queensland Prevent-a-Bite program has these on their website.
